This past New Year’s, my family gathered for what was supposed to be a cozy, casual dinner. It’s a tradition we’ve had for years, filled with laughter, food, and heartfelt toasts. But this year, my mom—who is 75 years old—walked into the room wearing a shiny, dazzling sequin dress.
I’m not going to lie. I was stunned. My mom has always dressed with understated elegance, leaning toward classic cuts and muted colors. Seeing her in a bold, sparkly outfit made me pause. When I asked her what inspired her choice, her response left me speechless: “It makes me feel festive and confident.”
Her words stuck with me. It got me thinking—why do we expect older people to tone down their style? Why are bold, attention-grabbing choices so surprising when they come from someone in their 70s? My mom’s dress became more than just an outfit; it became a lesson in confidence, self-expression, and the importance of embracing who you are at any age.